What are you Passionate about?

“I think that in order to be successful, women have to figure out what they’re passionate about first. No matter what you aspire to, you’ve got to love what you do in order to be successful at it. I also encourage young women to set high goals for themselves and be confident in their ability to achieve them. There were people who told me Princeton was out of reach and that going to Harvard Law would be too hard. I’m so glad I never listened to them – and it helped me learn to trust in myself above all else. The truth is, women can do anything they want. There is absolutely no limit on what we can achieve, and I hope that every young woman approaches life that way. We can become even more successful if we support each other, empower each other, and mentor the next generation so they can stand on our shoulders.” -Michelle Obama

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First Volleyball Victory Expressions

Want to send a Big Shout Out and Congratulations to Catholic Middle School Volleyball Team on getting their very first victory out of 8 attempts.. And they did it with only 5 players!!! So happy for these young ladies! It was a great feeling to see the joy and happiness in these young ladies faces.. Very proud of my niece for serving the game winning point!!!

I took my camera to my niece’s volleyball game tonight. And it was a great decision because I was able to capture their first victory.. I pulled out the shots that I felt best displayed the hard work and team work the young ladies put into the game.. And the joy and happiness of winning..

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Don’t Quit on Your Dream

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I shared this on Facebook on the evening of the last day of the Fall Exposure League.

I just want to share some encouraging words to those that really need it right now….. Don’t Quit!!! It’s not always easy to fight for your dreams, your goals, and your passion… I am so thankful to have parents, siblings, my former players, former area Memphis players, classmates and friends that support me in my basketball endeavors –An awesome support system.. There are times when I get worn down.. When I’m exhausted and overwhelmed with tasks.. At times I even lose confidence in what I’m doing… I also understand that everybody will not be for you.. However, it still hurts when you learn that people you consider close friends tell others not to support you….. But you still must press on… See people will never understand why the desire burns inside of you.. People don’t know your story.. People don’t know your WHY.. People, family and friends don’t understand what motivates you to put in an extra 20 to 30 hours a week into your passion and dream after you already worked 40 hours at your job…These past 5 weeks were rough on a sister and I still got 2 more weeks of events to go..But when I sat down to talk to a parent today and she said two words to me “Thank You” and it put me back on track… I walked to the other side of the gym and another parent said two words to me “Thank You” and it increased my confidence a little more.. I walked to the other side of the gym and a player said to me.. “Patosha when I graduate from high school, I want to come back and help you…” That made my day!!! I got reminded a couple of weeks ago that you never know what these kids and young ladies are going through at home.. And sometimes, a lot of times, basketball (sports) is an escape for them.. Participating in my league and hanging out for 1-4 hours in a comfortable gym is a relief to them….. I’ve been giving back to the young ladies in Memphis through basketball since 2002.. And I don’t see myself stopping any time soon… So for those that’s thinking about stopping and quitting on your dreams, goals and passions.. My words of encouragement is Don’t Quit.. Don’t Quit because you don’t know who you are inspiring.. Don’t quit because you don’t know who you are helping directly or indirectly… Don’t quit because you are closer to accomplishing your dreams and goals than you realize.